The Conversation Guide
What are the most common conversation mistakes? How do you make conversation effortless? Can you master conversation? Learn the answer to these questions and more in our ultimate guide.
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Don’t know where to start? Check out some of our favorite articles on conversation!
Conversation Starters
How can you have memorable conversation with everyone you meet? Here are 57 amazing conversation starters so you can start a great conversation with anyone.
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Have and Hold Conversation
How do you really connect with people and show them your authentic self? Master these 24 science-backed steps to level up your conversation skills.
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End a Conversation
Ever found yourself stuck in a conversation that just won't end? Learn 62 ways to politely exit any conversation without stepping on any toes.
Read MoreWhat Makes a Conversation Good or Bad?
Chatting is a big part of our day, whether we’re shooting the breeze or hashing out details at work. But what makes some conversations click and others clunk? Here are five key things to think about:
- They’re clear and to the point: The best conversations are crystal clear. Everyone knows what’s going on, which builds trust and keeps everyone on the same page. But when motives are murky or words get fuzzy, that’s when misunderstandings creep in.
- They’re all about give and take: A good chat feels like a tennis match—back and forth, everyone gets a turn. Hog the spotlight, or hide in the shadows, and someone’s bound to feel left out.
- They keep us hooked: Ever been stuck in a chat about something totally not your vibe? Yeah, not fun. The conversations that capture our attention usually revolve around something we all find interesting.
- They’re kind: At its heart, a respectful conversation is about recognizing each other’s boundaries and being considerate. This way, nobody feels trampled over or uncomfortable.
- They go with the flow: The best conversations aren’t rigid; they’re like water, flowing naturally with the topic changes and the mood in the room.
Why Do We Have Bad Conversations?
I’d like to think I’m great at chatting, but let’s be honest, I’ve had my share of clunky dialogues. It turns out, it’s not just me—or you. We all stumble through some messy exchanges. Science points to a few reasons, too—we might feel like a conversation might go sour if it goes on too long, or we might automatically assume that deep conversations with strangers might turn out awkward (when in fact they usually don’t!).
Conversational How-To’s
Whether it’s dazzling someone with witty banter or articulating clearly, we all face moments where our conversational skills are put to the test. These articles offer the tools to turn any interaction into a smooth and memorable exchange.
Ask Open-Ended Questions
Tired of asking the same old questions (that usually involve the weather)? Learn how to master open-ended questions that keep conversations flowing and interesting.
Read More Witty Banter
If you've ever wanted to be the one who always has the perfect, playful comeback, this guide will show you how to charm with your words.
Read More Be More Articulate
Struggling to get your point across without stumbling over your words? Learn 22 practical tips to help you speak clearly and effectively.
Read MoreConversation Starters
From customized icebreakers that warm up the quiet ones, to lively starters for any situation, and snappy texts that demand a reply—these articles have your back to open up any conversation.
Conversation Starters
Here's our favorite list of 69 killer conversation starters that can help you initiate engaging and memorable discussions with anyone, anytime.
Read More Conversation Starters For Introverts
Ever notice how tricky it can be to get more than a one-word answer from an introvert? Or are you an introvert yourself? These 30 starters are for you!
Read More Text Conversation Starters
Stand out in any texting scenario with 190 good conversation starters, whether you're reaching out to an old friend, flirting, or breaking the ice professionally.
Read MoreConversation Questions
Another great way to keep a conversation going is to employ your natural curiosity. And what better way to be curious than asking questions? Here are the best questions you can ask to start a conversation or keep one going.
Get to Know You Questions
This ultimate list of 425 questions covers everything from silly to serious, ensuring you're never at a loss for words with a coworker, new friend, or date.
Read More Fun Questions to Ask
Looking for some more lighthearted questions? This mega-list of 500 questions is perfect for strangers or at networking events.
Read More Rapid Fire Questions
Spark quick, engaging conversations that help people open up and connect faster with 200+ rapid fire questions for employees, work, and more.
Read MoreConversation Games
Games are a great way to spark conversation in a fun way. Check out these great games:
Conversation Games
Dive into these 27 engaging conversation games that are perfect for getting to know someone better, energizing group gatherings, or just having fun on a road trip.
Read More 21 Questions Game
Ready to ditch the small talk and dive into conversations that actually matter? Get over 130 insightful questions for the classic 21 Questions game.
Read More Party Games For Adults
Ready to be the life of the party? This collection of over 55 party games for adults is your go-to for turning any gathering into an unforgettable event.
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